One of my biggest fear at my teens was if sex was good because I do have strong desire for sex, whenever I see a pretty lady I’ll at that same moment think of love and so many other nonsense thought will come as well. But I observe during those days that I use to be confuse, anytime I set my heart on these sex matters. Though I’ve never had a girlfriend talkless of having sex because I’ve been enlightened by my since my childhood that there are many bad effects involve in doing such at an early age mostly, if you’re not married yet. So even though I think of it I don’t indulge myself in it. It’s possible for me to think of a woman but once i see one i run from her immediately.
What you should know about sex
This brought me to ask myself, is sex a good thing? If you have your bible with you read 2nd Samuel chapter 13 it talks about Amnom and Absalom sister tamer. Amnom thought it good in his heart to sleep with his brother sister tamer that he will love her so much and marry her but he was wrong. You see this is more like a temptation. The very moment you start to see those things as temptation the more you’ll run from them. Temptation is what seems good as first ( good here in English is called positive) while it reveal itself as a bad thing at the end ( bad here in English is called negative)
Mostly this thought begins to showcase itself at a youthful age, it’s a temptation, truth be told it brings a little good experience and ends it with a bad one, mostly when isn’t legal. Assuming you put a pot of food on fire and after 45minutes of putting that same food on fire, you just brought it down and started eating it directly from that pot that same moment you finished cooking. First it burns you, make you look like an hungry man and it does not give you the satisfaction you were suppose to derive compare to someone that dish his own in a plate. Although they’re both eating same food but different satisfaction, one get his tongue burn the other doesn’t.
A SHORT PARABLE ABOUT SEX
Let me tell you a story, a man took his child to a friend of his to talk about business, on getting there he found his friend wife preparing sweet potato. He thought in his mind not to taste from the meal his friend wife was cooking. Peradventure he ate from the meal served but his son ignored it. The father and his friend’s wife tried to force him but he refuse. Despite the persuasion the son refuse to eat the food, so the father left him to talk about business with his friend and after he went home. Unknowing to him his wife served him that same sweet potato but with a more savor taste, his son ate as much as he can but he couldn’t eat of it because he has eaten from his friend’s place; the son ate his sweet potato which was prepared with more spices and ingredient.
Lesson learnt: Everything a man rush to get will surely be left for someone lower than you. Why rush for what you’ll eventually get fed up of because you’ll marry someday.
Sex is good when you are married
SAY NO TO EARLY SEX
Whatsoever thing maybe sex that’s dragging you off your destiny and you’re not refusing it, let me tell you that same destiny will be giving to someone not good enough as you. I’ve so many friends that will tell me how sex is good, they will tell me it’s the best thing man has ever worked for, it makes them feel more alive blablabla….
Some people in life are drawn by these facts, they are not successful because of failures but the most surprising thing is, most fail because of their recent success they cling themselves unto. I could remember back in school when I was the best student in the class, this made me so convince that without reading I can still pass my exams and I failed because of one success.
But now whenever I wake up I’ve this thought, it goes like this……CHAMP will you allow this success to define you because you’re greater than this success, go and show the world you’re a more hero than this. I could remember an engineer who once told me when I was 19 years old, he’ll say that “everybody studying electrical engineering are all engineers but what will differentiate an engineer from another engineer matters” I kept pondering on that phrase what will differentiate an engineer from another engineer matters. What will differentiate you from another man in your place of work is that thing that seems easy for you but hard to others. I believe you’re an hero friend but look deep in your heart are you truly an hero? If yes don’t shortchange yourself by remaining where you’re , you can do more. If no, I bet you better know what to do and grow in the light of God. The bible says “whatsoever work you find, do it with all your heart and might for you don’t know what work you’ll do in the grave”.
